Menurut
satu survei baru dari Yahoo!, terungkap bahwa kira-kira setengah dari
semua wanita menginginkan seks lebih sering. Silakan baca saran dari
pakar seks papan atas ini untuk memikat hati pasangan Anda dan selamat
menikmati kehidupan seks ‘liar’ yang layak Anda dapatkan.
Kirimi si Dia seks yang seksi.
Ilmu yang simpel: Wanita butuh waktu lebih lama untuk terangsang. Jadi,
jika Anda ingin beruntung malam ini, mulailah dengan mengusik minatnya
sejak awal. Caranya? Kirimi si Dia pesan seks. "Pesan berbau seks bisa
sangat menggairahkan bagi seorang wanita," ujar Dr. Ava Cadell, pendiri Loveology University.
Coba berbicara atau minimal keluarkan suara.
Tidak ada yang ingin berhubungan seks dengan seseorang yang benar-benar
diam sepanjang waktu, sehingga Anda bisa mendengar diri Anda sendiri.
"Kebanyakan wanita menganggap bicara kotor sangatlah seksi," kata Gloria Brame, Ph.D., seorang terapis seks dan penulis Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex. Jadi,
apakah itu dengusan, erangan, atau sekedar berbisik di telinganya,
reaksi verbal apapun akan membantunya untuk bereaksi, menurut Brame.
Ambil langkah berbeda. Mencium
lehernya merupakan tindakan yang bijaksana, tapi berpindah-pindah area
yang dicium bisa berguna untuk mendukung Anda. Langkah Anda: Fokus pada
sesuatu yang jarang tersentuh, seperti tangannya. "Mulailah dengan
mencium ujung jarinya, kemudian pelan-pelan menyebar ke bagian
jari-jarinya, jilati di antara masing-masing jarinya," kata Cadell.
"Wanita suka menggoda, jadi simbolisme birahi akan mendongkrak gairah
seksnya."
Fokus untuk puaskan si Dia. Wanita lebih terbuka
pada seks jika mereka tahu kebutuhan mereka akan terpenuhi, jelas
Cadell. Jadi, daripada menuntut kebutuhan seksual Anda sendiri, ganti
fokusnya pada kepuasan si Dia. Usap area yang khususnya bisa menempatkan
si Dia masuk ke dalam mood seksi: Telinganya, leher, paha bagian dalam,
dan semua hot spot yang
bisa mendongkrak gairahnya. Dan, karena wanita menyukai spontanitas,
jangan pernah diam di satu daerah terlalu lama, saran Cadell.
Lontarkan kata pujian. Jika Anda ingin seks oral untuk
memainkan peran yang besar dalam petualangan seksual Anda, pastikan si
Dia tahu betapa tergila-gilanya Anda pada tubuhnya. Penelitian telah
menunjukkan, wanita yang lebih nyaman dengan alat kelamin mereka tidak
hanya lebih terbuka untuk menerima seks oral, tapi mereka lebih
menikmatinya dan lebih mencapai orgasme, kata Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., peneliti seks di Indiana University dan penulis Sex Made Easy.
“Lain kali, luangkan waktu Anda di ‘bawah’, katakan padanya betapa Anda
menyukai ‘pemandangan’ yang Anda lihat, dan wanginya” saran Herbenick.
Kata-kata Anda akan bermanfaat bagi Anda berdua dalam jangka panjang.
Selalu ciptakan terobosan baru. Jangan
menyulitkan si Dia dengan bertanya apa yang diinginkannya di
tengah-tengah aksi Anda berdua, kata Brame. "Wanita menyukai pria yang
memegang kendali," jelas Cadell. Jadi, daripada bertanya, "apa yang kamu
ingin aku lakukan untuk kamu?", cobalah bereksperimen sendiri, dan
kemudian bertanya apakah dia menikmatinya.
Pilih makanan terbaik untuk seks.
Jika seorang wanita sudah kenyang, hal terakhir yang dia ingin lakukan
adalah menanggalkan pakaiannya, tambah Brame. Jadi, jika Anda berencana
untuk mengajaknya ke suatu dinner, pastikan agar makanannya
ringan dan ‘seksi’. Dan, ini fakta yang menyenangkan: Afrodisiak
seperti segelas wine dan cokelat bisa menjadi sajian yang tepat sebelum
melakukan seks rutin Anda.
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According to a new survey from Yahoo!, revealed that approximately half of all women want sex more often. Please read sex expert advice from top to captivate your partner and enjoy sex life 'wild' you deserve.He send the sexy sex. Science is simple: Women take longer to become aroused. So, if you want to be lucky tonight, start to harass her interest from the start. The trick? Send the message He is sex. "Message smelled of sex can be very stimulating for a woman," said Dr. Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University.Try talking or at least remove the sound. No one wants to have sex with someone who is totally silent all the time, so you can hear yourself. "Most
women think dirty talk is very sexy," says Gloria Brame, Ph.D., a sex
therapist and author of Come Hither: A Guide to Kinky Sex commonsense. So, whether it grunts, moans, or just whisper in his ear, any verbal reactions will help him to react, according to Brame.Slow rhythm. Passion does not start in minutes when you enter the bedroom. And, to find him naked does not mean the He's ready, said Brame. To get to the index 'panas'nya, Brame recommends use of your time when stripped. Unbutton her shirt and release slowly. Kiss her bare skin and spend extra time on areas that you uninstall. "Women need to relax with the right state of mind," said Brame.Take a different step. Kissing her neck is a wise move, but moving areas that smell can be useful for your support. Your Step: Focus on something that is rarely touched, such as hands. "Start
by kissing his fingertips and then slowly spread to other parts of his
fingers, lick in between each finger," says Cadell. "Women like to tease, so the symbolism of lust will boost sexual arousal."Focus to satisfy the He. Women are more open to sex if they know their needs will be met, obviously Cadell. So, instead of demanding your own sexual needs, change the focus on the satisfaction of him. Wipe
area in particular could put the He entered into a sexy mood: ears,
neck, inner thighs, and all the hot spots that could boost her passion. And, because women love spontaneity, never stay in one area for too long, Cadell suggestions.
Throw a word of praise. If you want to oral sex plays a big role in your sexual adventures, make sure the He knows how crazy about you crazy on her. Research
has shown that women who are more comfortable with their genitals are
not only more open to receiving oral sex, but they enjoy it more and
more to reach orgasm, says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a sex researcher at
Indiana University and author of Sex Made Easy. "Next
time, take your time at the 'bottom', tell him how much you love the
'sights' that you see, and the fragrance" Herbenick suggestions. Your words will be beneficial for both of you in the long run.Always create a new breakthrough. Do not complicate the He by asking what he wanted in the middle of the action you both, said Brame. "Women love a man who is in control," said Cadell. So, instead of asking, "what do you want me to do for you?", Try experimenting yourself, and then asked if she enjoyed it.Select the best food for sex. If a woman is already full, the last thing he wants to do is take off her clothes, Brame added. So, if you are planning to take her to a dinner, make sure that the food is light and 'sexy'. And, it's a fun fact: Aphrodisiac like a glass of wine and chocolate can be a dish right before your regular sex.
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