Kami bertanya pada 3.289 wanita tentang rahasia di balik
kehidupan seksual mereka. Kami kumpulkan beberapa jawaban dari mereka yang
tersenyum puas setelah bercinta dan kami suguhkan pada Anda.
Si Dia ingin lagi. ”Wanita punya definisi luas soal seks. Tapi bukan berarti mereka menginginkan intercourse lebih banyak,” ujar Scott Haltzman, M.D., penulis The Secrets of Happily Married Men. "Seorang wanita mungkin hanya menginginkan merasa seksual secara keseluruhan. Jadi, beri pemahaman pada si Dia bagaimana Anda memikirkannya sepanjang hari dan ekspresikan perasaan itu padanya secara seksual.” Salah satu cara yang bisa Anda gunakan adalah mengirim SMS ke si Dia tentang rencana makan malam bersama dan minta si Dia mengenakan gaun merahnya yang seksi namun elegan. Suara wanita: "Dia khawatir terlihat terlalu bersemangat. Padahal saya juga punya dorongan seksual yang sama besarnya dengan dia.” (Marissa, 23)
Si Dia tahu dirinya sexy. Ingin mempunyai pasangan wanita yang penuh percaya diri? Jangan mengkritik bentuk tubuh wanita lain. “Si Dia akan merasa khawatir tentang perasaan Anda terhadapnya,” ungkap Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., pendidik kesehatan seksual di Indiana University's Kinsey Institute. "Si Dia tak akan merasa nyaman menunjukkan tubuhnya jika ia khawatir Anda akan berpikir dirinya gendut, tolol, atau memiliki tubuh penuh selulit.” Suara wanita: "Jika mendengar pasangan memuji saya di atas ranjang, saya merasa senang luar biasa." (Indah, 28)
Si Dia berterus terang. "Wanita yang merasa nyaman meminta apa yang mereka inginkan akan mengalami orgasme lebih banyak,” papar Lonnie Barbach, Ph.D., penulis For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy. Bangkitkan keterbukaan si Dia dengan meningkatkan pembicaraan seks di situasi nonseksual. Tapi, pastikan juga memberikan sinyal nonverbal. “Sejumlah orang melakukan sesuatu pada pasangan mereka seperti apa yang mereka ingin lakukan pada diri sendiri,” ujar Barbach. Jika si Dia menyentuh Anda dengan lembut, lakukan hal yang sama untuknya. Suara wanita: "Saya mengungkapkan semuanya. Itu yang membuat kami memiliki seks hebat.” (Katrin, 32)
Kenikmatan adalah tujuan. Orgasme bukan satu-satunya hal yang penting bagi kepuasan seksual wanita. Tiga dari empat wanita mengatakan, kenikmatan seks membuat orgasme tak lagi penting. Jadi, coba untuk relaks. Pendekatan yang lebih santai akan membuat si Dia lebih berpeluang mencapai klimaks. “Makin terpaku pikiran Anda pada orgasme, makin khawatir perasaan Anda.” Suara wanita: "Saya tak bercinta untuk memburu orgasme. Saya menyukainya karena itu mendekatkan saya dengan pasangan.” (Sarah, 22)
Bukan ukuran penis. Hanya 7% wanita (yang terpuaskan secara seksual) mengatakan ukuran penis adalah kunci kenikmatan seksual. Sekitar 93% lainnya mengatakan, mereka bisa dipuaskan dengan cara lain. "Gairah adalah hal yang membuat wanita meminta dan meminta lagi,” Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., penulis Touch Me There!
Suara wanita: "Chemistry seksual kami dan gairahnya membuat seks kami jadi luar biasa!" (Lisa, 22)
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We asked 3,289 women about the secret behind their sexual life. We have collected some of the answers they were smiling and satisfied after sex we serve to you.The She wanted more. "Women have a broad definition about sex. But that does not mean they want intercourse more, "said Scott Haltzman, MD, author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men. "A woman may only feel sexual desire as a whole. So, give the understanding on how you think about him all day and express those feelings to him sexually." One of the ways that you can use is to send an SMS to the him about dinner plans with and ask for the He wore a red dress sexy yet elegant. Voices of women: "She's worried about looking too eager. And I also have a sex drive that is as big as him. "(Marissa, 23)She knows her man sexy. Want to have a pair of confident woman? Do not criticize another woman's body shape. "Si He will feel worried about your feelings to it," said Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., sexual health educator at Indiana University's Kinsey Institute. "That he would not feel comfortable showing his body if he was worried you would think her fat, stupid, or have a full body cellulite." Woman's voice: "If you hear my praise partner in bed, I feel immense pleasure." (Beautiful, 28)Si He forthright. "Women who feel comfortable asking for what they want to experience more orgasms," said Lonnie Barbach, Ph.D., author of For Each Other: Sharing Sexual Intimacy. Generate openness by increasing the He talks sex in nonsexual situations., But, make sure also give nonverbal signals. "Some people do things on their partner what they want to do to yourself," said Barbach. If the He touches you gently, do the same for him. Voices of women: "I reveal everything. That which makes us have great sex. "(Katrin, 32)Enjoyment is the goal. Orgasm is not the only thing that is important for female sexual satisfaction. Three out of four women say sex makes orgasms pleasure no longer important. So, try to relax. More relaxed approach will make him more likely to reach the climax. "The more your mind fixated on orgasm, the more worried you are feeling." Woman's voice: "I do not make love to hunt orgasm. I liked it because it was closer to my family." (Sarah, 22)Not the size of the penis. Only 7% of women (that is sexually satisfied) said the size of the penis is key to sexual pleasure. Approximately 93% said, they can be satisfied in other ways. "Passion is the thing that makes a woman ask and ask again," Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., author of Touch Me There!Female voice: "Sexual Chemistry us and our passion to make sex so amazing!" (Lisa, 22)
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