Bercinta Seperti Wanita - Making Love like Women

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Bahkan, jika dia yang memegang kendali, seorang wanita memilih pendekatan seksual yang berbeda daripada Anda.

• Jinakkan Lidah Anda. Pria menikmati permainan lidah, karena ingin meniru penetrasi. Tapi,  pria bisa menjadi begitu agresif, kata Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., terapis seks di Boston, Amerika Serikat. Padahal, wanita ingin memulai dengan lembut, dengan isapan menggoda dan sensual. “Yang penting adalah pemilihan waktu, kecepatan, dan permulaan yang lembut,” kata Aline.
• Nikmati Seluruh Tubuhnya. Buru-buru mencapai ‘titik terpanas’ si Dia bisa membuatnya gagal terangsang. “Pria dan wanita menikmati tipe sentuhan yang berbeda, yang mungkin menjadi alasan kenapa wanita straight menikmati  eksperimen seks dengan wanita lain,” kata Zoldbrod. “Seorang wanita menyentuh wanita lain tanpa terburu-buru oleh waktu dengan ciuman ringan dan sentuhan lembut di area selain kelamin, seperti rambut, pundak, dan lengan. Ini sangat merangsang.”
• Biarkan si Dia Memutuskan. Lesbian melakukan seks lebih sedikit namun lebih mendapatkan kepuasan seksual dibandingkan dengan wanita straight, menurut studi di Rutgers. Dalam hubungan heteroseksual, wanita ragu-ragu untuk mengatakan tidak, dan berakhir dengan seks yang –sebenarnya– tidak mereka inginkan. Yakinkan si Dia bahwa Anda tidak berharap berhubungan seks setiap kali Anda berdua berkencan. Ini akan membuat si Dia seakan-akan memegang kendali, yang bisa membangkitkan libidonya, kata Zoldbrod.
• Santai Saja. Wanita setuju: Orgasme itu luar biasa. Tapi, begitu juga seluruh proses hubungan seks. “Pria terlalu orgasmesentris,” kata Victoria Zdrok Wilson, Ph.D., penulis The 30-Day Sex Solution. “Tapi, wanita lebih berinteraksi pada proses, saling menyentuh. Mereka senang bereksplorasi, dan mereka tahu tidak ada formula yang tepat.”
• Rangkul Getarannya. Beberapa wanita straight takut kalau pasangannya merasa terancam dengan sex toys, tulis studi di Indiana University. “Kami belum menemukan pasangan lesbian yang mengatakan itu,” kata Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., penulis studi. Jadi, jika si Dia membawa alat bantunya, sambutlah.

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In fact, if he is in control, sexual woman chooses a different approach than you.

    Tame your tongue. Men enjoy the games of the tongue, because you want to mimic penetration. But, a man can be so aggressive, said Aline Zoldbrod, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Boston, USA. In fact, women want to start with a soft, seductive and sensual with suction. "The important thing is the timing, speed, and soft starters," said Aline.
    Enjoy the whole body. Hastily reached 'hottest point' the He could make it fail aroused. "Men and women enjoy different types of touch, which may be the reason why straight women enjoy sexual experiences with other women," said Zoldbrod. "A woman without touching another woman in a hurry by the time the light kisses and a gentle touch on areas other than sex, such as hair, shoulders, and arms. It's very stimulating. "
    Let the He Decided. Lesbian sex less but getting more sexual satisfaction than straight women, according to a study at Rutgers. In heterosexual relationships, women hesitate to say no, and end up with a real-sex-they do not want. Reassure him that you are not the wish to have sex whenever you both dating. This will make the He seemed to be in control, which could raise libido, Zoldbrod said.
    Only relaxed. Women agree: Orgasm was incredible. But, so is the whole process of sexual intercourse. "Men too orgasmesentris," said Victoria Zdrok Wilson, Ph.D., author of The 30-Day Sex Solution. "But, more women interact in the process, touching each other. They are happy to explore, and they know there is no exact formula. "
    Embraces Vibrations. Some straight women fear that their partner feels threatened by sex toys, writing studies at Indiana University. "We have yet to find a lesbian couple who said it," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of the study. So, if the He brings tools help him, welcome.