Bagi Anda para wanita single, pernahkah merasa kesal saat ditanya soal 'kapan menikah?' di sebuah undangan pesta pernikahan rekan maupun sahabat?
Tentu, hal itu menjadi "tembakan" tersendiri bagi Anda sambil bertanya-tanya dalam hati. Namun, fenomena ini akan berubah menjadi hal yang biasa saat usia terus bertambah hingga diatas 30 tahun.
Konsultan keluarga dan founder Rumah Amalia, Muhammad Agus Syafii mengatakan umumnya wanita yang sudah berusia di atas 30 tahun cenderung cuek dengan status singlenya.
"Wanita justru sudah mulai malas mencari jodoh maupun berkomitmen dengan pria saat usia mereka mencapai bahkan lebih dari 30 tahun," ujar Agus di sela peluncuran buku Cara Mudah Segera Menikah di Jakarta, belum lama ini.
Sebaliknya, pria mapan yang sudah berusia matang juga ada yang bersikap enggan berkomitmen, namun masih ada juga yang menunjukkan niat baiknya untuk serius menikah.
"Tanda pria siap menikah adalah mereka mau serius berkomitmen dengan seorang wanita. Si pria pun mau menepati janjinya dan serius menjalin hubungan ke jenjang pernikahan," jelas pria berusia 40 tahunan ini.
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Women Above 30 Years From Lazy for dating
For the single woman, have you ever felt annoyed when asked about 'when to get married?' at a wedding party invitation colleague or friend?
Of course, it became a "shot" of its own for you, wondering to myself. However, this phenomenon will turn into a regular thing at the age continues to grow to over 30 years.
Family consultant and founder Amalia House, Muhammad Agus Syafii said generally women who are aged over 30 years old tend to be indifferent to the single status.
"Women actually have started lazy to find a mate or committed by men when they reach the age even more than 30 years," Agus said on the sidelines of the launch of the book The Easy Way Immediate Married in Jakarta, recently.
Conversely, men who are aged mature well established there are also reluctant committed, but there is also a show serious intentions to marry.
"The sign of a man ready for marriage is that they want a serious commitment to a woman. The man was willing to keep its promise and serious relationship into marriage," explained the 40-year-old man's.
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