Jakarta, Karena relatif lebih tertutup akan kehidupan
seksualnya, wanita umumnya tak akan bilang-bilang jika sudah terpuaskan
di ranjang, baik kepada pasangan ataupun orang lain. Tapi sebenarnya ada
beberapa tanda yang bisa digunakan untuk mendeteksinya.
Tanda-tanda ini terungkap dari hasil wawancara Men's Health terhadap 3.289 orang wanita. Kesemuanya ditanyai seberapa bahagiakah mereka dengan kehidupan seksualnya. Hasilnya terungkap dalam daftar yang dikutip detikHealth, Rabu (12/6/2013), yaitu sebagai berikut:
1. Ingin Lebih Banyak Bercinta
Survei Men's Health menunjukkan bahwa wanita sudah cukup puas berhubungan seks beberapa kali seminggu. Tapi ada 2 dari 5 wanita yang masih merasa kurang.
"Wanita memiliki definisi seks yang luas, jadi ini bukan berarti mereka ingin lebih banyak bercinta. Seorang wanita mungkin hanya ingin merasa lebih seksi, jadi biarkan dia tahu bahwa Anda memikirkannya sepanjang hari secara seksual," kata Scott Haltzman, MD, penulis buku 'The Secrets of Happily Married Men'
2. Menyadari Bahwa Dia Seksi
Wanita yang puas tidak akan merasa rendah diri. Bahkan sebanyak 4 dari 5 wanita berpendapat pasangannya menganggap mereka sangat seksi. Maka jika ingin istri puas di atas ranjang, sebaiknya jangan pernah mengkritik penampilan atau tubuhnya.
"Dia (istri) khawatir tentang bagaimana perasaan Anda terhadap dia. Dia tidak akan merasa nyaman menunjukkan tubuhnya jika merasa khawatir Anda berpikir dia gemuk, jelek, atau penuh dengan selulit," kata Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., pengajar kesehatan seksual di Institut Kinsey, Indiana University.
3. Mengucapkan dengan Lugas
Umumnya wanita yang puas tahu apa yang mereka inginkan dan sebanyak 87 persen akan mengungkapkannya. Mereka akan meminta jika memang ingin bercinta dan seringkali mengalami lebih banyak orgasme. Oleh karena itu, diperlukan keterbukaan akan seksualitas antara pasangan.
Tanda-tanda ini terungkap dari hasil wawancara Men's Health terhadap 3.289 orang wanita. Kesemuanya ditanyai seberapa bahagiakah mereka dengan kehidupan seksualnya. Hasilnya terungkap dalam daftar yang dikutip detikHealth, Rabu (12/6/2013), yaitu sebagai berikut:
1. Ingin Lebih Banyak Bercinta
Survei Men's Health menunjukkan bahwa wanita sudah cukup puas berhubungan seks beberapa kali seminggu. Tapi ada 2 dari 5 wanita yang masih merasa kurang.
"Wanita memiliki definisi seks yang luas, jadi ini bukan berarti mereka ingin lebih banyak bercinta. Seorang wanita mungkin hanya ingin merasa lebih seksi, jadi biarkan dia tahu bahwa Anda memikirkannya sepanjang hari secara seksual," kata Scott Haltzman, MD, penulis buku 'The Secrets of Happily Married Men'
2. Menyadari Bahwa Dia Seksi
Wanita yang puas tidak akan merasa rendah diri. Bahkan sebanyak 4 dari 5 wanita berpendapat pasangannya menganggap mereka sangat seksi. Maka jika ingin istri puas di atas ranjang, sebaiknya jangan pernah mengkritik penampilan atau tubuhnya.
"Dia (istri) khawatir tentang bagaimana perasaan Anda terhadap dia. Dia tidak akan merasa nyaman menunjukkan tubuhnya jika merasa khawatir Anda berpikir dia gemuk, jelek, atau penuh dengan selulit," kata Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., pengajar kesehatan seksual di Institut Kinsey, Indiana University.
3. Mengucapkan dengan Lugas
Umumnya wanita yang puas tahu apa yang mereka inginkan dan sebanyak 87 persen akan mengungkapkannya. Mereka akan meminta jika memang ingin bercinta dan seringkali mengalami lebih banyak orgasme. Oleh karena itu, diperlukan keterbukaan akan seksualitas antara pasangan.
ENGLISH
Jakarta,
Because of the relatively more closed to their sexual life, women are
generally not going to say-say if it is satisfied in bed, either to the
couple or anyone else. But actually there are some signs that can be used to detect it.
These signs are revealed from the Men's Health interview to 3,289 women. All of them were asked how bahagiakah with his sex life. The results revealed the list detikHealth quoted on Wednesday (06/12/2013), as follows:
1. Want More SexMen's Health Survey shows that women are quite satisfied to have sex several times a week. But there are 2 of 5 women who still feels lacking.
"Women have a broad definition of sex, so this does not mean they want more sex. A woman may just want to feel sexier, so let her know that you think about all day sexually," said Scott Haltzman, MD, author of the book 'The Secrets of Happily Married Men '
2. Realizing That He SectionWomen who are satisfied will not feel inferior. In fact as many as 4 out of 5 women believes they assume their partner is very sexy. So if the wife wants to be satisfied in bed, you should not ever criticize or her appearance.
"She (the wife) to worry about how you feel towards him. He would not feel comfortable showing her body feel worried if you think she's fat, ugly, or full of cellulite," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., lecturer in the Institute of Sexual Health Kinsey, Indiana University.
3. Saying with StraightforwardGenerally satisfied woman know what they want and as much as 87 percent will express it. They will ask if you really want to make love and often experience more orgasms. Therefore, the necessary openness of sexuality between couples.
These signs are revealed from the Men's Health interview to 3,289 women. All of them were asked how bahagiakah with his sex life. The results revealed the list detikHealth quoted on Wednesday (06/12/2013), as follows:
1. Want More SexMen's Health Survey shows that women are quite satisfied to have sex several times a week. But there are 2 of 5 women who still feels lacking.
"Women have a broad definition of sex, so this does not mean they want more sex. A woman may just want to feel sexier, so let her know that you think about all day sexually," said Scott Haltzman, MD, author of the book 'The Secrets of Happily Married Men '
2. Realizing That He SectionWomen who are satisfied will not feel inferior. In fact as many as 4 out of 5 women believes they assume their partner is very sexy. So if the wife wants to be satisfied in bed, you should not ever criticize or her appearance.
"She (the wife) to worry about how you feel towards him. He would not feel comfortable showing her body feel worried if you think she's fat, ugly, or full of cellulite," says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., lecturer in the Institute of Sexual Health Kinsey, Indiana University.
3. Saying with StraightforwardGenerally satisfied woman know what they want and as much as 87 percent will express it. They will ask if you really want to make love and often experience more orgasms. Therefore, the necessary openness of sexuality between couples.
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