SEX is included in the basic human needs.
However, when sexual desire is difficult to control, most likely it is a symptom of sex addiction.
Famous personalities who mentioned having hiperseks disorder is golfer Tiger Woods, who had a sex scandal with a woman.
Not easy to recognize sex addiction. In fact, most have looked normal behavior. Required in-depth examination by experts, namely a psychiatrist or psychologist to make sure.
However, there are certainly differences between sex drive is great with sex addiction.
Lisa Bahar, family and marriage therapist, said that sex addiction is characterized by
"Instability or the sense of anger and haste", compared with awareness of the needs of the couple.
According to Bahar, there are 7 signs of someone suffering from sex addiction:
1. Changes couple
There are people who do it quickly got a new partner after the end of a long relationship. But, if it becomes a habit, someone will have a great need received a sexual partner.
2. Often lie
Almost all addicts, whatever its form, is often trapped in a web of lies he created his own to cover the action. For sex addicts, he might be lying about the people he met. Moreover, their risk behavior will also be increased, for example to pay sex workers.
3. Spending incoherently
In addition to the lies coming out of his mouth, you might encounter evidence of spending money that is not clear.
4. You feel used
The sex is done every day or every other day is actually not a problem, as long as both parties feel satisfied. When you feel the couple always put their needs as the primary, even angry and aggressive if it is rejected, beware.
5. No matter security
In addition to viewing others as sex objects they instead partner for love, sex addicts will also put her libido as primary. Conditions that make them oblivious to reproductive health.
6. Frequent viewing of pornography and masturbation
Every relationship has a unique parameters for what is considered "normal" in terms of sex. Included in the affairs of masturbation and watching pornographic material.
However, if your partner looks do these activities several times a day, or shortly after sex, maybe there is a problem in sexual drive.
7. Sex disrupt life
Not all people who often think about sex an addict. However, people who hiperseks usually difficulty concentrating or doing activities harianya for his obsession for sex. (Kompas.com/Lusia Anna Kus, source: She Knows)
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